The hardest thing for me as a MAP is giving Lucy space. I’m super clingy. I long for her affection and attention, but she doesn’t always want to give it. I have to remember that she’s her own person, and I’m one of many friends, and not her significant other. It’s hard sometimes.
I don’t need your permission to exist. #MAP #MAPPositivity
Freedom of Choice
I consider myself a “Freedom of Choice” MAP. I believe that everyone should have the right to full body autonomy and can choose who, when, how, and to what extent they wish to engage in a relationship, or to not engage in one, regardless of age. I believe that everyone including minors should be empowered
We’re here to protect children and make them happy. Unlike adult relationships, we don’t get to commit ourselves to one child. Over the years we’ll have multiple children whom we’ll meet and hopefully leave a positive impact on. But they’ll eventually outgrow us. But hopefully they’ll look back fondly on the time we shared. It’s
A wise Girl Lover once told me: our purpose is to be there for girls to help them grow before they move onto adulthood. It’s bittersweet.
Proud to be a MAP
While being a MAP is a heavy burden to carry, there is an honor to it. One of my responsibilities as a MAP is to be a caretaker, protector, and advocate for children. While many people would do that out of a moral and societal obligation, I do it because it brings me joy. I
Do any of you ever have disaster fantasies? You imagine some sort of tragedy, and you are the hero saving someone’s life, often at the expense of your own? Rescuing kids from a burning orphanage. Tackling a shooter and taking bullets, to protect children. Using your body to shield a child during an earthquake, and
There are 7 billion people in this world. People of all ages. How hard is it to believe that somewhere, someone’s soulmate might be a child?
Last week, Lucy’s mom called and said she was supposed to babysit our friend’s daughter Annie, but couldn’t pick her up from the bus stop, because she needed to be home when Lucy gets off the bus. She asked me to go pick up Annie. I got there, and Annie who is usually shy, completely
Reuniting with her in the afterlife
I walked into the kingdom of heaven. Everything was clear and detailed. It was like my senses were magnified and I could see everything with such brilliance and intensity. I could breathe. Unlike before, it came with ease and felt so relaxing. I had energy, stamina and endurance. I sort of teleported as I walked.
