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A wise Girl Lover once told me: our purpose is to be there for girls to help them grow before they move onto adulthood. It’s bittersweet.

Do any of you ever have disaster fantasies? You imagine some sort of tragedy, and you are the hero saving someone’s life, often at the expense of your own? Rescuing kids from a burning orphanage. Tackling a shooter and taking bullets, to protect children. Using your body to shield a child during an earthquake, andContinue reading

Last week, Lucy’s mom called and said she was supposed to babysit our friend’s daughter Annie, but couldn’t pick her up from the bus stop, because she needed to be home when Lucy gets off the bus. She asked me to go pick up Annie. I got there, and Annie who is usually shy, completelyContinue reading

In reply to a MAP who was worried about a relationship going wrong. You can never choose who you fall in love with. Just like you can’t force yourself to fall in love when the emotion isn’t there. Love is a strange emotion. I think many of us here have gone through much of whatContinue reading

I got to see Lucy again today. We spent hours just sitting on the floor playing. While trying to be a cat, she kept trying to sit on my lap, and I got to wrap my arms around her and hold her many times throughout the day. Eventually we sat on the couch, and sheContinue reading

I was at work, and I happened to notice a little girl as I walked by. She was about 5, looked to be light skinned mix race. Just so cute. I went to my desk, and pulled out a box of suckers, and asked the mother if the daughter could have one. She agreed, andContinue reading